It all started with a weird birthday. I was bored. Bored of my limited choices. I was over my weak excuses, my untamed emotions and my irrational fears. I was stuck in a bubble. And then as the months and years flew by, the thought of bursting out of that bubble became more and more frightening.
I'd lost so much faith in myself, I'd forgotten who I was. And the only thing more impossible than staying where I was, was having the courage to leave it for the unknown.
What if it didn't work out? What if I failed? What if I looked stupid? What if I die?
But I was dying to live.
So I leaped.
Welcome to the Year of Firsts. A year dedicated to myself and the breaking my comfort zone. A year focused solely on eliminating my fears and doing what I really want to do with my life. A year where I experience many things for the first time (sometimes, all over again).
Will you join me?
No more stalling. No more playing small. I'm looking the world in the eye and making my presence known, because fortune favours the bold.
I'm acting on impulse and stealing my own show. Playing with chance and making spontaneity a lifestyle. Following my curiosity, and living as un-carefully as possible.
What about you?
"50 years from now when you're looking back at your life, don't you want to be able to say you had the guts to do it" - Sam Witwicky, Transformers
Rules:
- Make a list of at least 20 - 30 'firsts' you want to experience this year - make them detailed & juicy!
- Document those experiences by taking photos & bloging about them, linking back to your list.
- Post your url in the comment section. I will add your link to the list of participants below.
- Leave a comment on the other participants #YearOfFirsts posts! :)
- Go to a bloggers meet up
- Walk, walk, walk...
- Attempt bigger DIY projects
- Discover more of Rotorua
- Move into a house by the sea
- Join/play a social sport with friends
- Start mountain biking
- Enter the tough guy & gal competition
- Grow The Confetti Room to 1000 visits per day
- Practice better iPhoneography
- Swim in the sea
- Host an event for bloggers
- Travel with Scott overseas
- Grow my after school programme
- Try out a stunt workshop
- Get fitter
- Make jam jar cocktails
- Write a children's story
- Get a makeover
- Spend time alone
- Try at least one of these: paint ball, laser tag, go-karting, hot air ballooning, jet skiing, sky diving, ride a harley, walk through tree tops, go whale watching, visit an aquarium or the zoo.
- Go on road trips with friends and/or family
- Practice emotional fitness
- Bake/cook dishes I've never attempted before
- Try new foods
- Go on more dates
- Spend more time with mum.
- Step outside my comfort zone.
- Build friendships with colleagues.
- Do something life changing.
The Brave, The Bold & The Daring
#YearOfFirsts Participants
#YearOfFirsts Participants
- Charlotte // How Do You Do 22
- Ben // Ben Evans
- Genie // Bunny Eats Design
- Dani // Dani Pohlod
- Emma // Emma Louisa
- Leah // The Kid Bucket List
- Ashley // Organic Ash
- Elese // Elese Aesthete
- Lu // Looking for Mama Me
- Paris // A Ticket to Paris
- Amber // Amber in Wonderland
- Katie // Beautiful Temptations
- Breanna // Montage Madness in a Paintbox
- Cynthia // Flourishing Wellness
xo Elise
Splits really takes regular practice, every day is best. I used to be a dancer and cheerleader and practice practice practice will get you there!
ReplyDeleteOh wow Lena that's awesome! Yeah I'm the most unflexible person on the planet so I've started doing pilates or blogilates I should say. Small steps!
DeleteThanks for starting this tag. Some of these are more than one entry: Walk through tree tops, go whale watching, visit an aquarium & ride a roller coaster. Try paint ball, laser tag, go-karting, hot air ballooning, jet skiing, sky diving & ride a harley. This makes me tired just reading the list! I love # 28, expanding your palate. I have never met a food I wouldn't eat and I've had a lot of fun doing so :)
ReplyDeleteHaha, I categorized a few of them into one because I consider them as the same thing - and I've got a few years backlogged of things I'd like to accomplish asap because, well, why the hell not? I'm getting old remember! :P
DeleteI read somewhere that most of us keep the same palates throughout life that we learned in childhood, and that just doesn't sit well with me. I've been pushing myself to try more rich and pungent foods, and i'm having a great time! :D
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ReplyDeleteI'm on board, what a great idea! Mine are a little less adventurous than yours, well done, number #20 would be so fun!
DeleteWhat are you talking about Ashley? You have some fantastic goals! Homemade shampoo?? YES PLEASE!!! :D
Deletejust finished writing mine - loved reading this post Elise! I especially empathise with the post that led to you writing this one <3 my #yearoffirsts post will be live tomorrow! x http://eleseaesthete.com/2015/02/10/16684/
ReplyDeleteAwesome Elese! Can't wait to read your post!!xx
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